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❀ Everyone has dirty fandom secrets or guilty pleasures or unpopular opinions.
❀ List five of yours.
o1. I have a thing for men in masks such as this one. Why is there not more of this in Bleach fandom? I also have a thing for men in lipstick (yes, yes I do) but am not a fan of cross-dressing. That means I don't get into Bleach boys walking around in skirts or heels -- except for maybe one or two fics that I've read, ha!
o2. I enjoy yaoi bestest, yuri second, and het last. For me het is too predictable and too... mundane? There's also way too much focus (for the most part) on gender roles in het relationships. I hate that the majority of het feels the need to portray the woman a certain way because she's the woman, and likewise portray the man a certain way because he's the man. It's the 21st century, can't we mix things up a little?
As for yaoi and yuri, holy hells does yaoi turn me on. Yuri doesn't so much get me hot and bothered as it does give me warm fuzzies. I read yuri for the awww's and yaoi for the harder, faster, come fucking on.
o3. I once really enjoyed a fic of Isshin blowing Ichigo. Yea, I fuckin' admit it. And I'm still ashamed XD
o4. The longer I'm with the fandom the less inclined I am to subscribe to canon pairings. Whether it be yaoi, yuri, or het, I'm just not into it as much as (certain) crack pairings. The majority of canon pairings get to that point of been there, done that. I also can't abide by the fangirls/boys that want to shove their theories down my throat. Dealing with fanon vs. crackon (haha, like the kraken! XDDD) is like atheism vs. many religious groups. The atheist really doesn't give two fucks that their view differs from the religious person, and they're perfectly content to live in peace with said religious person. But the religious person seems to take it very personally and tries their damnedest to convert said atheist, often times using very hostile methods that leave the atheist backed in a corner with 'you're going to hell for being a non-believer (SHUN THE NON-BELIEVER)!!' raining down on them like daggers.
Yes I am both an atheist and I'm part of my own crackon community, and I say these things from personal experience...
o5. See numero dos. The best het fic I ever read was for the Gurren Lagann fandom. The girl won a bet, and she got to fuck her man. Yes, she fucked him. It was the hottest thing ever. I'm not at all a fan of dildos/strap-ons, but I'm becoming increasingly fascinated by this phenomenon (thank you xlgimpsex for the 'sex isn't the enemy' site, because it had an abundance of pictures for this particular activity *_*).
For me the hotness of it has nothing to do with the girl getting one on the guy. No, it isn't that at all. This isn't an act of vindictive feminism, it simply comes down to the fact that the man is comfortable enough in his sexuality and his relationship with his woman that he's willing to put himself in that kind of 'vulnerable' position. To me that trust is very, very sexy.
**BONUS**
(because this meme is kinda fun and I have more than just 5)
I'm very turned on by the 'doggy style' sex position, whether it be between two men or a man and a woman. I fantasize about it and it really gets me hot and bothered, but at the same time it makes me uneasy if I read it and allow myself to think about it too much. Most likely because the majority of times that I've seen this position in movies/shows, or read it in fics, it's been used to degrade someone or during rape.
**ONE MOAR BONUS**
I'm not really a fan of BDSM. I have absolutely nothing against BDSM, it just doesn't appeal to me most of the time. The idea of it is all well and good, but the actual execution leaves much to be desired (imo). My thing with BDSM is that it doesn't seem spontaneous enough. I don't really have any experience with it personally, but from what I've seen there seems to be a big emphasis on things like safewords and talking it out with your partner beforehand. Which is great, actually, so I don't know why I'm complaining. I guess I'd just rather someone get slapped or sliced without any warning, just to see how they react afterward. HA!
lady_toky XP❀ Everyone has dirty fandom secrets or guilty pleasures or unpopular opinions.
❀ List five of yours.
o1. I have a thing for men in masks such as this one. Why is there not more of this in Bleach fandom? I also have a thing for men in lipstick (yes, yes I do) but am not a fan of cross-dressing. That means I don't get into Bleach boys walking around in skirts or heels -- except for maybe one or two fics that I've read, ha!
o2. I enjoy yaoi bestest, yuri second, and het last. For me het is too predictable and too... mundane? There's also way too much focus (for the most part) on gender roles in het relationships. I hate that the majority of het feels the need to portray the woman a certain way because she's the woman, and likewise portray the man a certain way because he's the man. It's the 21st century, can't we mix things up a little?
As for yaoi and yuri, holy hells does yaoi turn me on. Yuri doesn't so much get me hot and bothered as it does give me warm fuzzies. I read yuri for the awww's and yaoi for the harder, faster, come fucking on.
o3. I once really enjoyed a fic of Isshin blowing Ichigo. Yea, I fuckin' admit it. And I'm still ashamed XD
o4. The longer I'm with the fandom the less inclined I am to subscribe to canon pairings. Whether it be yaoi, yuri, or het, I'm just not into it as much as (certain) crack pairings. The majority of canon pairings get to that point of been there, done that. I also can't abide by the fangirls/boys that want to shove their theories down my throat. Dealing with fanon vs. crackon (haha, like the kraken! XDDD) is like atheism vs. many religious groups. The atheist really doesn't give two fucks that their view differs from the religious person, and they're perfectly content to live in peace with said religious person. But the religious person seems to take it very personally and tries their damnedest to convert said atheist, often times using very hostile methods that leave the atheist backed in a corner with 'you're going to hell for being a non-believer (SHUN THE NON-BELIEVER)!!' raining down on them like daggers.
Yes I am both an atheist and I'm part of my own crackon community, and I say these things from personal experience...
o5. See numero dos. The best het fic I ever read was for the Gurren Lagann fandom. The girl won a bet, and she got to fuck her man. Yes, she fucked him. It was the hottest thing ever. I'm not at all a fan of dildos/strap-ons, but I'm becoming increasingly fascinated by this phenomenon (thank you xlgimpsex for the 'sex isn't the enemy' site, because it had an abundance of pictures for this particular activity *_*).
For me the hotness of it has nothing to do with the girl getting one on the guy. No, it isn't that at all. This isn't an act of vindictive feminism, it simply comes down to the fact that the man is comfortable enough in his sexuality and his relationship with his woman that he's willing to put himself in that kind of 'vulnerable' position. To me that trust is very, very sexy.
**BONUS**
(because this meme is kinda fun and I have more than just 5)
I'm very turned on by the 'doggy style' sex position, whether it be between two men or a man and a woman. I fantasize about it and it really gets me hot and bothered, but at the same time it makes me uneasy if I read it and allow myself to think about it too much. Most likely because the majority of times that I've seen this position in movies/shows, or read it in fics, it's been used to degrade someone or during rape.
**ONE MOAR BONUS**
I'm not really a fan of BDSM. I have absolutely nothing against BDSM, it just doesn't appeal to me most of the time. The idea of it is all well and good, but the actual execution leaves much to be desired (imo). My thing with BDSM is that it doesn't seem spontaneous enough. I don't really have any experience with it personally, but from what I've seen there seems to be a big emphasis on things like safewords and talking it out with your partner beforehand. Which is great, actually, so I don't know why I'm complaining. I guess I'd just rather someone get slapped or sliced without any warning, just to see how they react afterward. HA!
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Date: 2010-05-25 09:24 am (UTC)1. Yeah...that photo...as we've already established, hott. You're right, there should be more of that in Bleach fandom.
And now I'm tempted to write kinky fic involving masks.The first two guys from the left are sexy, the one on the far right isn't so much doing it for me, but he still has a bitchin' body.2. Yeah, I agree with that. I find het boring to a large extent, because it often feels...almost forced, to me. Like 'he's a boy, I'm a girl, so this is how things have to go.' I find that when I do like het, it's when the relationship is a bit unusual for whatever reason, or the character are interesting and don't get swallowed by the 'OMG HET ROMANCE' vacuum of doom. I must actually find some good yuri to read, because the dynamics interest me, I've just never really read any.
3. You bad girl you. :p
4. SHUN THE NON BELIEVER! :p I know what you mean, though. I was a bit of a canon purist once, but I saw the light and converted because in the end, the non-canon pairings are the more interesting because you get to see how people can make them work (or not work, on occasion :p). But one of the things that drove me out of Vampire Knight fandom was how bitchy the shipping wars would get. Aggravating. Very aggravating.
5. I'm not a big strap-on/dildo person, but I see what you mean about the trust. The trust thing is always hot as hell.
BONUS:
On the BDSM, I know what you mean. I don't usually find it that sexy because, as you say, it's too structured/contrived. Though I will enjoy it if it's well written. I find I prefer BDSM elements in spontaneous smexing, which I suppose is the benefit of fic; in RL, it's probably dangerous to toss in the BDSM at random, in fic nobody gets hurt.
I should do this meme. Lord knows what I would reveal though...:p
/rambling
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Date: 2010-05-27 07:48 am (UTC)2. Exactly. There are only two het pairings that I'm interested in as much as yaoi.
I think it's hard for me to enjoy yuri because the majority of Bleach women just don't interest me, and therefore the pairings don't interest me. That and, I don't really actively pursue yuri since it's not as sexy to me as m/m slash. BUT there was a pinch of yuri in
3. I KNOW *shame*
4. I used to be a canon purist too, but through a series of events ended up specializing in crack instead :P Though, it's been a rare thing that I've seen a crack pairing that's done well. The last one was that Kaien/Shuu candy shop one. So... these days I actually don't read very much fic, unless it's by someone on my flist.
5. I'm not a strap-on/dildo person either! But if a guy is bottoming, then I'm game XD
Bonus. Exactlyyyyy. I like the spontaneous inserts of BDSM themes in smexing, but understand why there's a need for it to be more structured in RL.
DO THE MEME! I want to know your dirty fandom secrets 8D